Caring About Ourselves

Hello, great human beings! Welcome to my visual diary where I do not write daily.These past days I was in need of caring about myself.Due to homework and other school task I have been feeling exhausted.If you are just like me, if you are tired of so many things, just take a deep breath.Sometimes our mentality is the one which makes us exhausted.Personally, when I have a lot of things in my mind, I cannot focus on anything and everything becomes so confusing.I learned a new method which is writing your thoughts for five minutes but in this five minutes you write without stopping.You just write what you think without planning.I usually write my opinions and feelings while listening to music.There is something fascinating about music.It makes me write things which I cannot even make a confession about.It releases the hidden emotions in my soul.I think we should all remember that pain is never permanent.But your belief in yourself can be.Sometimes it is hard to move on.It does not matter if you try to move on from a person or an habit.The change is hard but not impossible.As human beings we love being in comfort and I think it is normal.But our comfort zone can be really dangerous if we stay in it for too long.Lately, I have been thinking about how to get out of my comfort zone.I think it starts with investigating about the things which you have prejudices about.Then, trying these things unless they are harmful.Growing and discovering starts with being brave.

Stay weird because life is too short to be normal! πŸ™‚

You are loved and cared πŸ™‚

song of the day: Heather- Conan Gray

Being Yourself

How difficult can it be to be yourself when everyone has different opinions about every subject and every person? We read, talk, useful or not, we always find ourselves in confusion, sometimes in a development. We share our ideas, listen to ideas, learn lessons and get advice. We are forced to hear about what is wrong, what is beautiful and what is ugly, whether we want to or not. You can even find yourself believing ideas that don't belong to you. So who are you? Who are you really? You may have completely left yourself to social judgments you never knew, but you can get rid of it. Is it impossible? Think about it again.Being polite is an action that most of us think should be done but often do not apply on ourselves. Either we are not really aware of our own existence, our worth, or we are too disrespectful to even be kind to ourselves. Our own inner voice can either be our closest friend or our closest enemy. There are: Living your life by not hearing your own voice and controlling you by the statements of others. Of course, I don't know where someone else's voice will take you to someone else. When you are the person closest to you, why do you make an effort not to listen to yourself so far? Why be the one who pulls you down when you can motivate others? The most brutal voice of us humans, if not all of us, is the inner voice. It's hard to be truly understanding and kind to oneself. It's much more difficult, especially when trying to get to know yourself. Is it impossible? Think about it again.Are you silent because you are satisfied with everything? Or is it because you accepted what was told to you? As Socrates said, "Unquestioned life is not worth living." I think asking questions and wondering are the most valuable and most important things to do. When we don't question, we start to accept it. It's not a bad thing to admit, unless you are blindly believed, the same meanings can be expressed in different words. For example, what society sees as disharmony is my and many of my other friends' creativity. In a society where freedom of expression is regarded as disrespectful, being able to exist with your own fears, passions, beliefs, and what you do not believe is sometimes a very enjoyable and sometimes a painful adventure. So, is a human strong enough to protect his/her humanity while being in pain? I think it is the greatest success to be able to protect your own self, to protect your dreams, beliefs and passions and to hold tightly to them. It is not difficult to be you, but it is difficult to stay as you. Why is it so important to be you, to protect your identity? live, live your dreams and most importantly realize yourself.Otherwise, it may be too late when you realize that what you think is real is an illusion. It is too hard to stay as you. Is it impossible? Think about it again.

You are loved and cared :)
Song of the day: Experience-Einaudi